How to start on Marriage, what should I do first, this most crritical question. Lets discuss about Marriage or Indian Shaadi and how to start with.
The very first thing that you need to do is make up your mind that you want to get married and the time frame that you are looking. Ideally the earlier you start the better, but always have at least few months with you. At times you might need to convince your family as well for your marriage. Also be ready with the answers for questions that might come back on you from your family and friends.
Once you are set and done with all the emotional and mental aspect, let’s start on the actual preparation. Here we will look only at the arranged marriages.
The first thing that you will need is Bio-data and couple of recent solo photos. The next thing is to start on the actual search. Here the procedure might change from person to person. One of the option is to let some of the relatives know that you are looking get married. This might sound a bit awkward; however there are ways to convey your message. Some of your aunties may be good source, you just need to give them a hint and they will organize the rest.
The other option is to get registered to some matrimonial website or in some Marriage bureau. These matrimonial websites are mostly free to register and then if you find any suitable match, you need to become a paid member and you can contact them. Marriage bureau works a bit differently where you need to pay first and they will provide you with the profiles, however this is more personalized service so some people prefer it.
The first thing you will be asked while registration is your profile, so be ready with the one. This is different from your Bio-data as it is more descriptive. There are few other options as well like giving advertisement in news paper, though this should be consider later on.
It is just not enough to get a decent photo or create a good profile; you will need some personal grooming as well. First go to a good parlor and get a decent hair cut and some facial grooming. This applies to both guys and girls. The second thing you will need is nice pair of cloths, required when you have personal meetings. These all things might sound rubbish at times, but remember that this is the most important time when you need to look good.
Next be ready with the answers of some common questions that might be asked during your meetings. Always speak what your heart says, but you can definitely work on the way you speak.
There are few other things that you need to take care like changes in your house interiors, etc. but we can’t discuss all the things. So enjoy the search and all the best
The very first thing that you need to do is make up your mind that you want to get married and the time frame that you are looking. Ideally the earlier you start the better, but always have at least few months with you. At times you might need to convince your family as well for your marriage. Also be ready with the answers for questions that might come back on you from your family and friends.
Once you are set and done with all the emotional and mental aspect, let’s start on the actual preparation. Here we will look only at the arranged marriages.
The first thing that you will need is Bio-data and couple of recent solo photos. The next thing is to start on the actual search. Here the procedure might change from person to person. One of the option is to let some of the relatives know that you are looking get married. This might sound a bit awkward; however there are ways to convey your message. Some of your aunties may be good source, you just need to give them a hint and they will organize the rest.
The other option is to get registered to some matrimonial website or in some Marriage bureau. These matrimonial websites are mostly free to register and then if you find any suitable match, you need to become a paid member and you can contact them. Marriage bureau works a bit differently where you need to pay first and they will provide you with the profiles, however this is more personalized service so some people prefer it.
The first thing you will be asked while registration is your profile, so be ready with the one. This is different from your Bio-data as it is more descriptive. There are few other options as well like giving advertisement in news paper, though this should be consider later on.
It is just not enough to get a decent photo or create a good profile; you will need some personal grooming as well. First go to a good parlor and get a decent hair cut and some facial grooming. This applies to both guys and girls. The second thing you will need is nice pair of cloths, required when you have personal meetings. These all things might sound rubbish at times, but remember that this is the most important time when you need to look good.
Next be ready with the answers of some common questions that might be asked during your meetings. Always speak what your heart says, but you can definitely work on the way you speak.
There are few other things that you need to take care like changes in your house interiors, etc. but we can’t discuss all the things. So enjoy the search and all the best
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