Why I should get married

This should have been the very first article of my blogs, but better late than never. Most of the parents are asked (rather bombarded) with this question whenever they speak to their kids on marriage. This especially happens with guys in their 20’s and parents feel that this is the right age for them to get married (don’t know why they call it as “time to get settle”).

The answer is very simple, rather a reverse question that what is harm in getting married. I agree there are more responsibility to carry and then only me factor is gone. But think realistically, do you want to really stay alone for your whole life, not many people can. At some stage of your life you need someone to share your sorrows and happiness. You need someone who can listen to your idea and thoughts.

Forget about the S** factor, that is very obvious, do you think you can stay without people around you. Parents are there, but for how much time. There will be always few things that you cannot share with your parents and family, after all a big generation gap is there.

Some people are ready to have live in relationship. I personally feel that is specialized form of marriages. You do all the things that you do in Marriages, except for making it legal. People often say that way they are free to leave their partner whenever they feel so, but how can you start a relationship with such a negative feeling.

The very first reason is your parents and society wish. It’s your duty to give something back to your parents who have given their whole life for you. If there is an institution for marriages and they exist for thousands of years, there must be something good in that.

In many western countries, people don’t marry during younger days in the name of freedom. If you look at matrimonial ads in newspapers in those countries, pages are full of older people wanting to get married. You need someone to support you and be with you during your older days. However, it’s difficult to find a right partner that time.

If you think positively by marrying you get a good friend for life, with whom you can have fun all the time. Obviously there will be someone to question you, but there will also be someone who can correct you if you are going wrong somewhere.

Think wisely and make a right decision and hopefully positive. You always need a good friend in your life and why it can’t be your husband or wife. Give it chance and 99% it will work. If doesn’t work, unlike others at least you tried and gave your 100%.