How to speak with a guy on phone for Marriage

Dear All,
Here we will discuss on how to speak with a guy on phone for marriage. To start with never say NO to a guy if he wants to speak to you. Probably he is the right person you are looking for because he is ready to communicate and share equal ideas with you. This is missing most of the time especially in somewhat conservative society.
Before the call, be ready with your phone, if you have mobile better to have hands free. If possible go in a separate room where no one will disturb you. The most difficult task for girls is how to start. It is generally guys who calls and should start, however if he doesn’t, you can do that.
Don’t be too shy to speak or else the whole idea of call will be lost. You can start with speaking on general topics by asking his nature of work, work timings, designation etc. May be to ease out more, you can ask his hobbies, favorite pastime, etc.
Never ask for habits like Alcohol, smoking at very first. Let the guy speak on this own, you will have plenty of time to know about this later. Once you are well versed with conversation, you can ask some important question like does he wants working wife or a housewife. At times you cannot ask direct questions and might need to change your sentence a bit. The other important thing you might need to ask is some details about his family.
It is very important to know carrier goals of a guy. People tend to hesitate to speak directly about their salary, so hold on and may be sometime later you can ask this. Let the guy speak most of the truth else if you ask too many questions to him, then in all likely hoods he might give wrong or inconclusive answers.
Most of the times speak truth to answer all his questions. If you give wrong or inconclusive answers now, it might backfire you later. You may write down few generic questions and answers to it on a piece of paper if you find it difficult to decide on the spot.
It is misconception that guys ask irrelevant questions. It might be irrelevant for you, but can be most important to him. Do not hesitate to answer or ask any question as it is a matter of life long relationship for you. If you like to speak to him then continue, but should not go beyond 60 mins, after that better meeting each other personally or another call.
To conclude, don’t be in hurry and take your own time. He is not the last guy in the world, but if you like him go for it. Try to enjoy this phase, you will cherish this for lifelong.

Have a happy soul mate searching…..